How To Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend - 5 Simple Steps

1. - You need to make an effort to go ahead and reach out to your ex girlfriend. It is important for you to establish some kind of communication at this point, even though you must be careful no to take it too far. Try to find a reasonable balance between the two (undesirable) extremes of "playing hard to get" and going overboard with contact and communicating. The objective here is to let it be known to your ex that your are still interested in her and wish to continue being a part of her life.


2. - Send her en e-mail. It is vital at this point for you two to stay in touch with each other, and you should do it in a naturally flowing and casual, yet meaningful manner. Try writing her simple, down-to-earth messages like "Hi! How are you doing?" or "Hey! What´s up", instead of overwhelming her with elaborate love letters or poems.


3. - Provided that you are truly determined to learn how to get back with your ex girlfriend, you decidedly must make an effort stay away from other girls. I know it might sound obvious but the truth is that sliding away into a spiral of "rebound" relationships can be very tempting, and has proved to be the downfall of many at this stage. Even if your ex girlfriend is very understanding, and might let it slip if you pursue other women, at the end doing so would only prove a further obstacle to your goal of getting her back.


4. - Keep your mind focused on the most important things, those aspects of your relationship that you cherished the most and the things that make you feel like she is worth fighting for. Treat your girl like a real princess. Let her know that she is special to you, and make her FEEL special as well. A good way of doing this is by remembering important dates or anniversaries in her life ( send her a beautiful birthday card, etc. ). Tell her that your are thinking about her in a positive, unselfish way.


5. - Last but not least, call her and send her text messages, but do it with discretion. Do not be afraid of texting her or giving her a call every now and then. It is very important for her to know that you are decided and determined, as uncertainty can be a very negative element in relationships. Let her know what´s going on and what you´re doing so that she can find you if so desired, and so that she won´t feel like you are having fun without her ( possibly with another woman ). Make her understand that you care and still think about her. When she realises how frequently she is in your thoughts, it will be easier for her to take action and begin making up with you.


These tips on how to get back with your ex girlfriend are not an exact science, and there are no universal recipes or magic tricks that will always work no matter what. Rather, think of it as a continuing learning process. There are, however, some pretty good ideas and advice as to what you can do that will help steer you in the right direction.

Overall, I would say that the main issue here is to maintain an open line of communication with your ex, without going too far. Acting jealous, excessively passionate or overwhelming in your communications might end up scaring her away from you. Keeping this in mind, though, if you follow these tips you should be on the right track on how to get back with your ex girlfriend.